Helpful tips to help wide the waves:
1. If I'm looking only at outcomes, I'm probably not where I need to be
2. Whether I like it or not what is happening, it is all a part of the process of growth
3. Move from exclusive to inclusive (everything is part of the whole). Be careful of resisting what is.....be accepting of it and don't let it stop my focus.
4. Be very clear about what is meaningful to me and decide where to focus my energy
5. We don't have to work alone. We are all in this together. Each person has a unique take on things and when we share, we all help each other.